You're welcome and hang in there during the negotiations for who gets what. A friend of mine went through it twice. The first time she jumped at the unnessesary bait her ex threw at her and it lead to a bunch of hassles and so on. The second time she reminded herself that this is just the legal process at work and it had to be done and his "bait" don't matter. What matters is we get it done. She held her tongue and calmly negotiated and ended up with more of the things she wanted and needed to care for her and the children. After he tried baiting her a few times She figured out the "baiting" was his attempts to see what she would more strongly fight for over everything else and he would take those just to prove he could. By remaining calm and working the process instead of falling for his manipulations she came out of it with more then the things that she wanted and her self esteem and so on in tact.
Hang in there.
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