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1) He is spending way too much time with his friend. I am all for couples having a life and friends outside of their relationship, but there needs to be a balance.
2) The girls...No bueno...You have a right to be upset. What I'm about to type next is my personal preference. I do not agree with men who are in committed relationships and hanging out with single women on a regular basis. ESPECIALLY if they are drinking together, going out together, and spending late hours together. Hell. No. I recently heard a story on another board I visit. The girl is married, her husband always hangs out with his cousin, who is single. His cousin regularly brings random women around. Needless to say, her husband ended up cheating on her. Now, this is not to say that men can't control themselves and it's not 100% guarantee that he will cheat if he hangs around women. If he wants to cheat, he will. And he will find a way. I just don't agree with stuff like this. And of course your husband thinks you're tripping. I can guarantee you if you were hanging out with men like he is hanging out with women, he would have an issue with it. Even the most secure men will at least comment on it and have some feelings about it. Like I said, i just don't trust situations like this. I know my man, I know he is faithful, but I don't like the idea of him hanging around women, who are single no less. Because, I know women...I can't trust the situation.
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