Haier, You have the right to your feelings no matter what they are. I can empathizes with you about the leaders trying to make this about you instead about their inability to lead a diverse group in harmony. It is remarkable that you seem to be able to understand that it is not about you, and it isn't. It is the leaders responsibility to help a group learn to grow and adapt, they are not doing that if they allow them to dwell on SU week after week, nor are they helping them to understand how to meet the needs of all the members of the group by denying even one.
I'm glad you found Psych central. Welcome. 
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