I've been through this, but till this very day he says "it was nothing", even though I found the "charges", itineriarys of the flights, etc." to prove otherwise, they traveled overseas a lot together and to CA often even when she was out there taking a course (not work) he met her at her hotel and took her out (as usual) Yeah, right it was nothing!!!! I did not just fall of the cabbage cart!! I later found out through her sister in law that she cheated on her husband with her husbands twin brother, yulk She has 2 children, she's a "*****"
Throough therapy plus a stay I signed my self into a psych ward for suicidal idealities (357 mag to the head) and there is were they got me stabilised with meds. and talk therapy .
With time things have gotten better, yeah he said the same thing "I love only you". I'd like to believe that but it is hard. . .but I keep trying, we will be married 25yrs in April, know each other for 31 yrs. I just keep working on trusting him again, but it is hard sometimes : (
Try family therapy if you see things are not progressing, it really can help
"darkeyes"