hey L,

there seems to be quite a bit of despair. (((hugs)))

I think you might need to identify what you want your life be like - and then stop at nothing to make it that way. No matter how distasteful, difficult, tiring, you will need to keep doing what works, what is the most effective for you to achieve your goals.

Only you know how you want your life to be and how to get it there, don't overthink it - just trust your gut and make it work.

Keep talking L - it's amazing how much clarity we can get for ourselves when expressing ourselves to others.

Big Hugs,

Jade xxx


Rosie's signature interests me so I hope you don't mine this aside:-


Rosie - offtopic - your signature caught my eye because today is ANZAC day in Australia and New Zealand. Today's the day each year we commemorate Winston Churchill's failed Gallipolli campaign in WWI which resulted in the deaths of 8141 Australian men with a further 26,111 wounded and deaths of 2431 New Zealand men and 7571 injured. The Turks suffered 66000 deaths and 218000 men injured. These deaths 76 572 deaths took place in just 8 months between 25 April 1915 and 20 December 1915 - and had no influence on the course of the war. WC's failure was fatal but many people believe, he learnt from Gallipolli and made much better war decisions as British PM during WW2.