For about 10 years adult movies served as foreplay, arousing both of us. About 6 months ago our arguing became very hurtful....my husband told me i was old, lost my looks and called me a variety of fat names. Knowing there was some truth to his words, i became very self-conscious & my self esteem took a nosedive. About a month ago i decided no more videos. Now instead of becoming aroused, i would become sad & know that my husband desired these other women & i was just there & handy but not DESIRED. Now we lay next to each other like strangers who arent sexually interested in each other. It hurts my feelings. I dont know how to fix it.
~im still pretty, & shapely, just 20-30 lbs extra