My boyfriend and I have been going out for a long time. He went home last summer to where he is originally from and met this girl. He proposed this arrangement that is very complex to me (a catholic person who had stable family life, a very loving father to my mother and his kids). He said he loves me, and don't want to lose me. And that the other girl is only there to have kids from his own heritage and culture. He knew from the very beginning that I don't agree with this arrangement, yet he tells me that its my choice whether to stay or not. How do i deal with this? I have been struggling to make sense out of these crazy idea of his.