my T doesn't remember anything, usually, and neither do I, unless I write him an email saying I keep forgetting to tell you about this so here is an email to remind us to talk about it. then i'll remember. getting old is a b itch. he is actually pretty good now at remembering stuff i've said. but the general principle would be, he's all ears, however I want to use them! he has asked me to text him after dr (specialist) appts to let him know how things went.