I feel like most people I know fit this description? Doean't everyone feel like their life is chaos at times? Perhaps even often? Every time I read about BPD, all I can think is...What, exactly, is "abnormal" about feeling and acting in such a way? Why does being unhappy and overwhelmed by the hard living most of us have to deal with on a day to day basis, have to necessarily constitute a "disorder"? Perhaps I'm in denial. The description certainly fits me to a T...but it's hard for me to imagine being any other way given the violent instability of the world around me.