Hi Soup-- are you feeling better today? I hope you can work things out with your T. Do you tell him/her what you need? I tried a few Ts (before going DIY) and never thought they were right for me but in hindsight I wished I had told them what I needed from them. At least give them that chance to change course...still, don't people change Ts all the time? Ultimately, I think you should just trust your gut.

I think finding someone who gets one is hard to do but not impossible. I hope it will happen for you.