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Old Apr 26, 2012, 04:28 AM
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Hi Soup-- are you feeling better today? I hope you can work things out with your T. Do you tell him/her what you need? I tried a few Ts (before going DIY) and never thought they were right for me but in hindsight I wished I had told them what I needed from them. At least give them that chance to change course...still, don't people change Ts all the time? Ultimately, I think you should just trust your gut.


I think finding someone who gets one is hard to do but not impossible. I hope it will happen for you.
Thanks TerryL, I have actually just agreed with my T that I will have an extra session. I am so hoping that I don't again just sit them cringing, but can fidn a way of talking - I am just not sure I know what I want to say - it is like 2 bits of me wanting different things.

I have never had a different T and that makes it hard to judge whether this one is a good one.

But I am ploddign along, one step at a time.

Thanks - Soup
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