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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
But does all the good stuff about someone get negated when they do one thign wrong? Who ultimately loses in this situation? Is it not ourselves? I wonder what can be gained by both of us, in trying to forgive and just use the opportunity to learn more about ourselves and how to improve our experience in life.
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Soup, you have some wise words here. I think I have such deep distrust that anyone could ever really care about me that after trusting T so much and seeing 'evidence' that her caring was not real, hits me in a deep deep vulnerable place. My instinct is to wail and cry and kick and scream and run to the corner to hide and never be seen again. I mean, why trust again? In my mind it's obvious she doesn't really care because SHE FORGOT.
I'm seeing the dysfunction in this attitude but I'm having a hard time aligning my feelings with my rational mind.