I doubt my t would take the time to search for me. However, we do have a mutual FB friend and I am aware of how I post there and how to use the security settings to control who can see each post. Not just because of t, but because I also have work contacts and church people as friends. I never post anything that controversial or horrible anyway.

I would be thrilled if t read my blogs (they are public, can be found with search engines), but I don't have my name or photo on them so even if she did read them she might never know it is me.