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Old Apr 26, 2012, 07:11 AM
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Yes, it's out of your head/heart/body and into the room; you can't work with your mother on past things so you have a stand-in in your T. Think of how many years you lived with your mother? Now, how many years have you been with T? (My T did that when I complained about my husband's behavior; "how many years did his mother have him. . .and how many years have you known him")
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