I've never worried about my T reading my facebook. It's locked except for my friends but even so I'm rarely posting on there and am conscious of what I post because I have kids and neices and nephews as friends. Also though I doubt that my t spends any time other than what is paid thinking about me.

I did worry about here on PC. He sent me a link to an article on this site so I know he's aware of it... and he is also aware that I post on a "forum" ... I also have told him I only go on the psych forum because I found the survivors of abuse one too triggering... so I wondered but because of my doubt above... I came to the conclusion that it wouldn't happen