thanks for all the replies, ppl.

Just one word of concern:

this is a thread mostly for patients to vent and talk about their issues.

If you are a doctor or a med student, may I gently remind you to try as hard as you can to validate this.

I do welcome your posts here with open arms, but I ask that you please try to lean towards being understanding toward patients and less explaining about your own issues.

I have a suggestion for professionals: Start your own thread about your issues or maybe go to a the "professional" forum, if there's any?

I want patients to feel safe here like they can say whatever they need to say without fear of rebuttal or retaliation.

thanks and I love this thread!

Billi