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Old Apr 26, 2012, 12:38 PM
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Originally Posted by IceCreamKid View Post
I might have already answered this; I don't remember. But my answer today would be I have enough people who have expressed extreme dislike for me over the years -- including my own family -- that I decided I was going to stop being on their team (stop hating myself) and instead love me, building my own team of me-support. So far this approach is working far better. Once I started liking me I slowly started noticing people who also liked me -- and I don't doubt there always were people who liked me but I couldn't find those trees for the forest of hate I was lost in, so to speak. Courage! And love!
soooo right on!

I must remember this today and always.

Billi
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