This is kinda what skysblue is doing in her rupture thread? We judge T and say they're not good enough, I'm outa here! Well, that's what I would do, anyway, with T's and other r/s. Cos that's how my FOO treated me - our way or the highway. That's how my childhood religion was. A break is simply a thing to be negotiated, or to take, period. Whether your T is Freud or King Kong.