I haven't read through all the posts but I can say this as a T.

There I times I do similar things with clients. And it happens with clients I CARE about because I think about them so much, at times, outside of session. Mostly in comes from, I KNOW it's important, and that it's be weighing on my mind or something I'm mulling over to talk to said client about. And sometimes I'm like, ok, did I THINK about us talking about this subject and that this person would be good to refer to this? Or do we ACTUALLY address it yet?

If this were something that happened between myself and I client, I can certainly appreciate it feels bad. But if they KNEW why I did it, it shows actually that it's because I think about them more often.