First off, I am the kind of guy that always needs to be there for my girlfriend whenever she is hurt, sad, or in need. I would do anything for her, absolutely anything. Alot of the time when she gets sad or upset though, I feel like the last person she wants to confide in is me.. she just sits there for hours sometimes with a blank look on her face, crying right in front of me. She wont talk to me, or even acknowledge me sometimes. I hate it, I cant stand it. I am just left there next to her with my mind tormenting me. I truly love her with all that I am, but she just puts me into this silence any time she is hurting. I wont leave her, but I cant take it anymore. Its making me depressed.... deeply depressed and I dont know what to do. Please.. if anyone knows what I should do, or is also going through this same thing, please tell me or help me...something, anything. Today she went to a parole meeting for someone that hurt her when she was young, and I couldnt be there for her because her family wouldnt allow it. When she was done she told me that she didnt even want to come over to talk, even though she had been crying all day. She absolutely hates her family and never wants to spend time with them. She is always over at my place, practically day and night every week.... I dont understand whats going on... why wont she just let me be there for her? I feel so helpless and lost.