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Old Apr 26, 2012, 06:04 PM
Anonymous32507
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Originally Posted by Aslan View Post
hes not interested in spirituality, you are. why cant that be your own personal
thing?
I'm sorry. You either did not bother to read the thread, or you simply do not understand that being mocked by your partner is not healthy. If he asks what I am reading and then mocks me for it, that isn't really respectful, nor is it in any way asking for any of his interest. Sorry you can't understand that. I was asking for advice on how to communicate that I do not like being put down, mocked or made fun of by my significant other. It's quite simple regardless of the subject matter. I also mentioned how he does talk about his own beliefs, and I do listen when he talks. It goes both ways.

I am not going to hide my spirituality, pretend it doesn't exist, or any other thing that implies that I should be ashamed of my beliefs. I am not going to be in a relationship with someone who does not want to know who I am either. And luckily that is not the case. There is a massive difference between being who you are, and wanting to tell your life partner something interesting you read once in a blue moon, or forcing your self and beliefs upon them or constantly talking about it.. Which is not the case.

I listen to tons of hockey, video game, technology talk from him which are his interests, I will even join him sometimes if he asks, even tho I really don't like hockey or gaming. Relationships are a "two" way street.

I will not reply to more of your comments.

Last edited by Anonymous32507; Apr 26, 2012 at 06:25 PM.