My husband left me and our 3 kids about 9 weeks ago. He's been back and forth not knowing if he wants his family or not. He was just diagnosed 2 weeks ago and can't see a doctor for meds for another month. Could his feelings of not knowing what he wants be the illness... or does he really not love me anymore? He's making bad decisions everyday concerning other parts of his life as well. Could his illness be the reason why he doesn't know what he wants?? I'm so confused!