I understand what you are going though as I am living with some people that have chosen to do the same thing. Their excuse is... Well We work so they just do it to relax but I see how they are neglecting the rest of their life. I don't know what can be done either. Hopefully someone will respond to this thread and give us both some answers. From the time they get home until they go to bed which is late they are on the computer. They think waking up a noon is fine and they get upset if the baby wakes them up early. I don't think it is fair to the kids that these gamers think it is more important then getting a kid to school or what have you. Communicating with them is very hard and frustrating. You are diffidently not alone and this is becoming a real problem that I don't think has really been addressed by the general public yet. Speak up get the word out this needs to be addressed!! I feel for you and your son.