I called T last night (evening, actually). I was upset, said that I was hesitant to call, but could T please give me a call back. It's the first time I've reached out like this specifically asking for a return call.

T hasn't called.

Now, I know there could be a million and one reasons why T hasn't returned my call, or even emailed. I'm not curling into a ball of angst/despair.

So I sent T an email a few hours ago. It was a good email. Tempered, but specific. H thought it was very good.

I haven't heard from T. I told T in the email that I was specifically contacting T tonight (as opposed to tomorrow) because I know T doesn't respond to emails, much less phone calls, over the weekends and I hoped he'd get back to me before the weekend.

I didn't intend for it to become this -- but this has become sort of a laying out of the fleece.

But does it need to be? It feels that way, but objectively, healthily, does it necessarily become a test?

Wanted to get your thoughts on it if you would, please?