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Old Apr 26, 2012, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by WePow View Post
Good job. That is tough to know T "could have" responded, but didn't. I go through that a lot with T. And it is difficult. But I know he is doing it because he is trying to show me things about giving people space to experience their emotions. The more "noisy" I get in emails and panic after a rupture, or even with trauma flashback stuff, my T becomes silent. He told me that they "Hold the Space" for a client.

Oh WePow - thanks so much for this kind of interpretation. It really helps a lot. It makes perfect sense. Instead of her rushing in to hold my hand, she's giving me time to learn to cope with my extreme emotions. Man, you don't know how much your comment here is helpful.