I had once raved about my T to a friend and initially wanted my friend to have the same benefit I have with my T. Then thinking about it later I realized that I did not want to share my T. I did not want to hear how my T did therapy with my friend. And although I gave the T's name to friend I then talked to my T about it. She told me she doesn't see friends of clients and she took down my friend's name just in case she called in order to tell her that she wasn't available.
Since then my friend has expressed no more interest in therapy with my T but if she does I will tell her upfront that my T does not see friends of each other and I will also share with her my own thoughts/feelings about it.
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