((((((((((((((((Nina)))))))))))))))))))
I don't "hear" any whining! I hear upset, concern, frustration and exhaustion that's seems totally appropriate to everything going on...and my goodness do y'all have it going on! I'm so sorry. The old saying "when it rains, it pours" is applying in your life right now and you sound soaked to the bone.
Try to remember, sweetie, that this too shall ease if not completely pass.
Remember that we're here and listening with care. You can "dump" on us for a while. I hope it eases your load.
KD