Hi essexgirl,

I am going to be honest and say that it doesn't really matter how many people on this site tell you that you are beautiful, because in the long run it doesn't mean anything. What is important, however, is that YOU are happy with yourself. Self-confidence is the only thing that will truly make a difference.

You have posted your picture several times on this site - this shows me that the replies we give you really aren't making any lasting difference. My advice? Stop posting your picture, and work on loving yourself first and foremost.