okay, practically speaking, you did discuss it in detail at the beginning of the month, then the holidays (and school vacation) happened, and then a couple or so sessions NOT discussing it, and now it's the end of the month and you have been waffling and cancelling (pdoc) and hemming and hawing and texting - and you are mad at her for how she worded something? Do you really think she has forgotten what has gone on this month? If she has truly forgotten, i'd like some of whatever she is drinking or smoking!

I am realizing that my T repeats things very calmly until they penetrate the hankster's defenses. You could take it as that is what she is doing, kinda don't look a gift horse in the mouth. You're not in therapy to question or improve HER behavior. If you feel you can't trust her, you need to explore your feelings about that, not "prove" she is untrustworthy. Yes? No? When did you turn into CantExplain? (sorry, CE!!!) She shows up for every session, that's all the trust she needs to show you. She doesn't make promises and trick you. I'm sorry, I don't know what you are trying to PROVE. She is not superwoman, she never said she was. Try the meds, if you don't like them, stop them. What is the big deal? Are you trying to be annoying? NOT POSSIBLE!!! It doesn't matter if you are, not to T, not to me, not to anybody. Nobody is gonna get mad. WE ARE OKAY WITH IT! So you can stamp your foot and yell "you forgot!" all you want - all you're gonna get is a cuddle on the couch and a there, there. (just trying to understand )

eta - edited for tone, hopefully!