Thread: Am I abusive???
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Old Apr 27, 2012, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Harley47 View Post
That's not really uncommon. A lot of people I played with on CoD "Hated it" or "Definitely the worst entry yet." Yet every day... "<Gamertag> has started playing Modern Warfare 3." Sort of the nature of the beast.

I think calling it "Satan" is a little...overzealous, and probably doesn't help him at all. If they don't get along, he may be doing this to spite her to an extent...was he like this before she moved in to help with the baby? Even if it's a matter of spite or defiance, I think it's progressed well past that now.

I hate to be a downer...but I wouldn't anticipate the vanishing gamer act in a clan. As an example, my clanmates and I met...5 years ago, I think? We don't play CoD anymore. We still talk often though. :/
This started in August last year when I was pregnant. We had the money to buy the stuff for him to start "streaming" on twitch t.v. He wanted to make money. He used to be a clan for many years, and dropped out because he met a guy who was a streamer, and joined his clan. (They had a falling out and he's not in that clan any more, he's joining a new one now, I think... not sure, he doesn't tell me but I assume so.) So he started playing a lot, got his video embedded, and started getting viewers.

The first two weeks things seemed normal. And then he met his new "best friend" guy. That's when the change happened. It's like this guy turned a switch in his head. This guy hates women, is an alchoholic, cheats on his girlfriend, treats women like dirt and is adored and loved by all. So is my husband. He did make some money (approximagely $700 in 3 months,) but then in November was so burned out of CoD he started on Starcraft 2. He lost all his viewers. Unfortunatley, his "best friend" also plays SC2....

Anyway, in December things slowly started to return to normal. By Christmas things were going fairly well. Then the baby was born, and for about two weeks he was back at about 90% normal. Then his mom moved in mid-January, but things were still pretty good. I was totally damaged, mind you, but he was coming aroun. February was pretty good. March I went back to work and things were still fairly okay. April comes along and we were fighting a lot and he was locking himself up a lot. Then we had the big giant fight. Ever since then even if things are good I feel like a big whole is in me. He's not as bad as he was in Sept/Oct/Nov... but... I feel like he's more like a shadow of who he was. Sometimes he's there, then sometimes he not at all. And me... I'm just... there, getting jealous at everyone (even the guys at this point.)
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