I feel like Im going forward and getting over my traumatic experince of emotional abuse then , I get some reminder and cant control my emotions all over the same issue again . I had a sister in law who contributed my torment asking me to be friends on a social site . I went back remembering painful memories again . My x husband who also contribute to my torment of abuse too , told me its fouryears ago to build a bridge and get over it . Does anyone els have this comment thrown at them when they keep having painful memories of the past . ?