in the past few years for my own work with T I read a few books about adoption. They came up in my google searches because of the really difficult attachment issues the children have, and how the adoptive parents can deal with them. The kids just don't understand the language of love; what might seem like a mild correction to a "regular" kid with a more normal sense of attachment can feel like a devastating loss to such an orphan. Which sounded like some of my reactions in T. I believe my T also worked with such families, as he was very interested in my books and had some others of his own in the office.