Oftentimes, people with sympathy do more damage than people who don't. They understand how to hurt others better. Being considerate doesn't require emotions, it just requires logic. And in that respect, once you have it down, you're more like a frustrated aspie than a psychopath when it comes down to it. Just don't agonize too much... Not that I should really talk; but once I notice I'm too concerned with it, I realize it's best to find a new approach. : )