I have a little boy age five with autism , and hes very closely bonded to me . Today he is at his father's place. He didnt want to talk to me on this phone this morning . This I found unsual for he always would normaly talk to me on the phone . I know he doesnt always want to talk on the phone and that includes other family members too . I felt my heart sank when my x husband said he didnt want to come to the phone . I went on fearing hes going to make my day really hard with his anger problems and cause alot of stress to me. I also felt gulity for argueing with his father and crying over issues of previous abuse in front of our son. I went on to feel depressed and anxious for hours on end. I decided to find his dvd player and fix it up so its going again . I rang my x to talk to my son , I told him I had some good news about his dvd and he was pleased. He went on tell me hes not happy about not going with his father today to melbourne . I worked out he wasnt angry with me at all . I sometimes misjudge people about how they are feeling towards me when they are in a bad mood. I often think its because of me , sometimes it is and sometimes its not . This also affects my mood too . Do others have this problem as well , do know its apart of borderline personality .