hi lynn09 ... this wasn't directed at anyone here, just my personal life, a real bad day, bad week, bad month ... and just feeling hurt all around by some friends here in my real life and friends who've moved on and keep in touch online who come running to me at every turn for help but never care if i need help. i sincerely hope you and others here didn't take this post personally?

and as for the comfort or support i give here ... it never feels enough as i'm not a natural advice giver and frequently feel inadequate for that ... i'm mostly just a hug-giver.

but thanx for reminding me not to generalize, i do that sometimes when i'm hurting a lot and need reminded not to, so thanx.

peace, love, hugs,
roz
xox