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Apr 29, 2012, 03:42 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hello and welcome! I'm glad you found us. I'm sorry you're having such a time, but I'm very happy you're in therapy. That was a wise move on your part. 
I agree with Lynn in that you shouldn't be using such words as "fault, blame, deserve, worthless," etc. It does no good at all to beat yourself to a bloody pulp. As Lynn pointed out, we need to be more respectful toward ourselves just as we would a trusted friend or family member. We need to learn to love ourselves, which can be a difficult thing to do but we can't love anyone else if we can't love ourselves.
Can you tell us why your relationship is so unhealthy? It would be helpful to know so we could better help you.
Again, I'm glad you're here. Please keep posting. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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