(((shez)))

You're spot on and I can relate to what you're saying, It is like saying, "well I was sexually abused so I will go and do it myself" I so hate it when people say that it is an excuse IMO.

It is like when I was a kid I was never ever hugged, I have kids and I hug them all the time and show them so much love, My parents did not show me any love at all, I don't want to be like them, My family are selfish.