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Originally Posted by krisakira
Of course I am going to take offense to both your posts! You are now telling me that my boyfriend needs to grow up, and that at my age I don't know "what is what." Our relationship works. You have no right to come to these conclusions about us when you don't know us. There are no "sad dynamics." We are just like any other couple.
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We do have every right to express our opinions. You asked for our thoughts just because you don't like what I wrote doesn't mean it is wrong,
furthermore I am not invalidating your feelings. I do believe you have feelings for each other.motivation and intent is a whole other thing. And I do question your 45 yo boyfriend and why he would engage in such behavior. My brother is around that age and if he were doing what this guy is doing I would have a serious talk with him. I have nieces your age and if I found out about such ridiculousness you can bet I would speak with them about it too. I wouldn't sugercoat it either and just tell them things Id think they'd want to hear
But I would also be there for them when things started going bad so yes It IS very sad.
Good luck.