That is the most hurtful thing anyone has ever told me. My own sister told me this causing
.me to be suicidal once. She didnt remember saying it. She dissociates. She basically said something like :

i was abused too, get over it already, you just have one crisis after another, i wish you would finally get your life together.
It just broke me. So yeah, i've heard crap like this all my life and from some unexpected people. I NEVER expected to hear it from my sister. She was the one who got me out of the abuse.