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Originally Posted by Rose Panachée
We do have every right to express our opinions. You asked for our thoughts just because you don't like what I wrote doesn't mean it is wrong,
furthermore I am not invalidating your feelings. I do believe you have feelings for each other.motivation and intent is a whole other thing. And I do question your 45 yo boyfriend and why he would engage in such behavior. My brother is around that age and if he were doing what this guy is doing I would have a serious talk with him. I have nieces your age and if I found out about such ridiculousness you can bet I would speak with them about it too. I wouldn't sugercoat it either and just tell them things Id think they'd want to hear
But I would also be there for them when things started going bad so yes It IS very sad.
Good luck.
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Sorry I am not the one who asked these questions... did not make this thread. I did not ask for any opinion. I am giving an example of a situation where that kind of age gap relationship actually works. You are coming to negative conclusions about me just because of my age, which is 23. That's what I did not like. A relationship with any ages can work, and have. Anyone should question motives in any relationship, and when you find out intentions are good, anything can work out.