I would get a letter of recommendation from your pdoc and / or therapists that say something like "doggiedo been stable for x amount of time and In my opinion would be an excellent candidate for parenting." That way you can be truthful in whatever road you take for parenting. I'm in favor of the foster-to-adopt program. It's messed up to having "letters of recommendation" from your support team but it'll help if there's every a question of your ability to parent. Even if the father is in the picture.

I honestly think you should look into everything you can put into place and really consider having a child on your own. Since it would be planned you can be much more prepared and you are more aware of your personal issues then most parents, you'll probably be a better parent then most.