Apply for Section 8 housing, plus if you're over 55, call local retirement homes and get on their applicant list to move in. When you get the call to move in, file a change of address with social security, pack your suitcases and move out.

Look at your possessions this way: can they be replaced from yard sales on the cheap? The only real treasures are heirlooms and photos. Ditch the other stuff and him.

The peace you will gain will be worth more than any sofa or television.

Also, don't forget to seek help from battered women's centers. They know that psychological abuse is as bad as physical abuse and will probably help you.

Take that first step toward your freedom.

Best of luck, sister.

Terri