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Apr 30, 2012, 05:26 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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He's being pretty "cavalier' about this. It seems that it's no big deal to him!  I wonder how he'd feel if YOU had told him a pack of lies? Wouldn't he be a bit upset and untrusting? Wouldn't HE be madder than @#$$? Sure he would! They never think about putting the shoe on the other foot.
He's got a lot of work to do in earning your trust back. Whether or not he does it is another story.
As far as getting the anger out, what I've done is write a letter with every single thing I feel -- all the emotions & pain that I feel go into that letter. But-- I don't mail it or give it to the person.  I either burn it or throw it away. It sure helps! I just did it recently -- I wrote a letter to my oldest sister, as she has tormented me all my life! But she'll never get that letter. I felt SO much better -- i should have done it years ago.
I wish you the very best! I hope things work out for you two. God bless. Hugs, Lee
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