Yeah I didnt quite address that did I? I am doing my very best to not get my hopes up. As much as I would love this to happen. I am staying very realistic about it. I'm not going out and buying baby furniture and all that lol. We have to see what our niece is going to do first. What our plan is .. is that we want to talk things thru more ourselves to make sure this is what we really want in our life, then approach my husbands sister to let her know that if our niece is leaning towards the way of adoption to consider us first if she wants to. We dont want her to if it will be too painful for her to see the baby all the time though. But we also thought that this would be a good way of keeping the baby in the family without it disrupting her life and plans and with her not having the support of the father right now. He is very much in denial. I think we have been going over alot of aspects so far in the short time that we've known about this. And I know there will be more to come should the situation warrant it. Thanks for your support. I know you guys are looking after me and my well being and I appreciate it so much!!
Hugz~
Beth
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