(((lostinDC))) I know exactly what you are saying as I am going through something similar. I miss my old T (it was my choice to move on as I needed someone else who specialized in trauma - my old T said her door is always open).

My new T is nice, down to earth etc.. but I'm not sure there is a 'click'. I'm not sure if not 'clicking' is me being defensive about becoming attached to new T. - I think to some degree that may be true. Also I miss old T and I touched on it lightly in my last session ( I kind of fibbed a bit as to what level of importance my old T had in my life).

I am having a hard time balancing making myself vulnerable with new T to do the work in combo with not wanting to make myself vulnerable for fear of potentially having feelings for new T. In my head I tell myself: "This is all business".

PM me anytime if you'd like. I feel your angst!