I am trying, it sthe beginning of the road and it is real hard. I am reading all the posts and everyone has great ideas on how to bring themselves out of a slump but I cant find mine. I really need to do something. I have the best girl in the world slipping away. Its funny because its only been a 4 month relationship, but I really dont want to lose her. I lost her for about a week and it was devastating, I dont think I ever felt that bad, ever.