Mike: I appreciate the candor in your comment. Yes, it certainly is difficult to bare our souls. My concern with the nature of my fantasy is that it does not tend to follow the so-called "usual themes" with respect to "humiliation. No nudity; no pain; no "tools" (leather, collars, ect). I'm not complaining! I don't seek any of those things. I am, however, attempting to ascertain if other men (or women) my age have these same fantasies which tend to dwell on "underwear" instead of the aforementioned items. If it's "unique," so be it. Just curious if there's anyone else out there, because I'd like to know how they deal with it. Take care