Big safe hugs to you!!! I do understand what it is like to run into the "Miss Bouncy" in the waiting area. And I also felt that same pain of knowing I was going to spend the session bawling doing EMDR work while he just finished with a laughing beautiful young lady that I was CERTAIN he would rather have in the office.

I told my T about that. He didn't even know who I was talking about based on my description! I watched his eyes and he was telling me the truth.

Every client is unique to a T. And what I realized is that the clients who may be the most difficult for a T are also most likely the clients the T celebrates the most when they do make a breakthrough.

Be honest with your T the next time you see him. Your T needs to hear all this from you.