I feel I take two steps forward and two steps back. My husband who now is my x husband was very unsurportive in some ways and not other s. I ended my marriage for he was makeing me worse with his controlling , bullying nature . I lived with this family in a family bussiness , and I didnt fit in to what they wanted . My father in law is a bully and bullies his family around , and then he treated me in the same way . He also nearly hit me as well , and done many bullying awful things . He came across as a really nice man to all his customers and was well liked . If you said anything about him nobody would believe you .. He critised me and his famliy all the time behind close doors . He picked on me cause Im a introvert and yelled at me that Im driving the customers away and loseing bussiness for him . He turned my husband against me and he also abused me too .. My husband s sister would talk behind my back and run me down to her father . I cried to my husband to get me out of this place and live as a couple on how own . However he was to never to do this , until I got really sick and ended up in a psychaitric unit for depressed new mothers . His parents ruled our marriage and told us how to run our marriage ect . They told us they were paying for the wedding and they were inviting who they wanted to the wedding . We also had make another date for the wedding for they said an event coming up for the bussiness was more important .. They didnt like the choice of wedding cake we chose so they got made what they wanted . I asked my father in law at the time to stop talking about me and he said back as tears are running down my face as Im typing this we will talk about you as much as we like .. The father inlaw abused me for not rushing and getting him a cup of tea when hes wife wasnt available to get it for him . He did nothing for himself , he had his wife do everything . He scolded me and said your a woman I expect you come out and get me a cup of tea .. He also abused me for I wouldnt accept the whistleing he does with his family . Im at a loss will I ever stop reliveing this nightmare life I lifed in four years ago ..