Pay BackBody:I squeezed hundreds of dollars out of that bastard for years. The Thanksgiving visit was to get the last of it making it sweet pay back. All a ploy and an act to get him here. I hated every minute of it while loving every minute of spending it. "HE" was the 4th confirmation that Linda voluntarily abandoned us three girls, giving up all rights without a fight. At the time of his visit we were unaware of the charges pending against him. He knew and was trying (in his own ways and terms) to come to grips with what he did and made a pathetic attempt at apologizing (which didn't go over very well). So there, that subject explained and closed. DON'T YOU DARE BLAME ME ON THAT ONE. I was just a child. .